failure to launch?

30970459_sApparently, the boomerang kids are not leaving home.

According to Adam Davidson writing in the New York Times last summer, this trend that’s been going on over 30 years and is only getting worse. Even before the recession began in 2007, 34% of 20-somethings were depending on their parents for all or part of the rent. A generation ago, about 10% did so.

Of course, for most of recorded history kids were working on the farm by the time they were 4. And they were working full-time by the time they were 10. It wasn’t until the mid–1800’s that child labor laws and mandatory schooling helped invent the modern teenager.

But there are lots of reasons for the boomerang generation now—and not all of them are related to character. The growth of foreign trade, advances in technology, changes in the tax code, crushing student debt; all of these contribute in some way.

Yet in the face of all this, polling data indicates that 77% of young adults still believe they will be better off than their parents. They can’t all be deluded.

Of course living at home could be a failure to launch. But in many cases it is an economic plan; even married couples are living with parents in order to manage school loans.

I’m not saying that lack of motivation or ability are not factors in many cases. Poor choices can be part of it. But I am saying it’s easy to rush to judgement.

[How much of this has to do with the economy and how much has to do with motivation? What’s your take?]

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About wally metts

Wally Metts is the daysman. He is director of graduate studies in communication at Spring Arbor University and is a pastor at Countryside Bible Church in Jonesville, MI. The father of four adult children, he and his wife Katie raise barn cats and Christmas trees in Michigan. His grandchildren call him Santa.

4 Responses to “failure to launch?”

  1. Massive student loan debt isn’t an economic plan, its economic suicide–And my generation better wake up and realize that.

    Being a burden to your parents isn’t a “plan” either, it’s a unfair and selfish. Nobody twisted your arm and forced you to get an education that you couldn’t afford in a field that obviously isn’t financially viable–And your parents shouldn’t be bearing the burden of your poor choices.

  2. On a less grumpy note-Your comment on “creating the modern teenager” was spot on. I had never considered it in those terms before.

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    […] As I suggested Monday, there are economic reasons why some young adults are still living in their parents’ basements. There may be some emotional and developmental ones as well. […]

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