We have not learned to love our wife if we have not learned to provide unexpected and gracious gifts that reflect our knowing and understanding her heart.
We wouldn’t do it again, at least not the same way. Or advise it. There was stress and silence. And there was anger and hurt. Family pictures don't tell the whole story.
You can love someone without the flurry of passion or excitement our culture often mistakes for the real thing. Every day we love each other. Some days we are also in love.