For an anniversary, there was surprisingly little nostalgia or remembering. Our single most significant conversation was about our future.
loving life and letting go
in defense of meetings
T. S. Eliot observed that we measure out our lives in coffee spoons. Actually, we are more likely to do it on an electronic scale. I put 12 grams of loose leaf tea in a beaker each morning. They use a scale at the coffee shop too. But my life is not measured that way. … Continue reading in defense of meetings
only a picture
Our marriage easily becomes our idol, the thing we seek more than we seek God. It is even easier for our expectations of our spouse to become an idol, the image in our head of what our spouse should look like or do.
how did Christ love the church?
Marriage was always a picture of Christ and the church, of His unconditional, self-sacrificing, sanctifying delight in His people.
the peril of “reply all”
Here are some situations where ‘reply all’ is counterproductive if not downright rude.
the daysman 