We wouldn’t do it again, at least not the same way. Or advise it. There was stress and silence. And there was anger and hurt. Family pictures don't tell the whole story.
Making a home
Category: marriage
Falling in love
You can love someone without the flurry of passion or excitement our culture often mistakes for the real thing. Every day we love each other. Some days we are also in love.
A year of jubilee
That evening I told her I loved her for the first time. She already knew the next thing I would do was ask her to marry me.
a short guide to a long marriage, anniversary edition
These ideas frame a marriage that is much better than the one we imagined when we first embarked, a fence around holy ground.
COVID-19 as a relationship accelerator
Things don’t have to accelerate, even if they are going poorly. Here’s why.
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