because motives matter
This post is a heartfelt tribute to Mary Darling, a retiring colleague known for her presence, thoughtful questions, and faith. Despite differing views, the author appreciates Mary's impact on their shared workplace. Mary's legacy of listening and asking beautiful questions will continue as she retires to focus on her life's work.
We have not learned to love our wife if we have not learned to provide unexpected and gracious gifts that reflect our knowing and understanding her heart.
Covenant allows hospitality to flourish. It allows trust to build. We feel loved and safe. So do others.
We wouldn’t do it again, at least not the same way. Or advise it. There was stress and silence. And there was anger and hurt. Family pictures don't tell the whole story.
It's my life story, sort of. And you are welcome to correct errors of fact.
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