Monthly Archives: December 2005

A Christmas Baby

Did you see the “pictures of my grandbaby?”

I know a little about what that means this year, with a new granddaughter not even a month old. I wasn’t going to be one of those doting grandparents who make everybody look at the pictures, but of course that is exactly what I have become.

There is something extraordinary about a new baby, especially at Christmas time. They are small, and precious, and you are at once proud and protective. You want the world to treat them well, and you want everyone to share the joy. It’s a miracle, and a blessed one.

At Christmas, however, there is a special awareness of what a new baby means. Christmas is, after all, a celebration of a new birth. And the anticipation we associate with Advent, and the whole idea of the incarnation somehow meld with the birth of a new baby–and in silent awe we contemplate the divine mystery that God emptied himself and took on the likeness of sinful man.

Romans 8 tells us: For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature, God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering. It’s a mystery beyond our comprehension. And like Mary and Joseph and the others, we fail to grasp it.

They no doubt believed themselves quite ordinary, and despite the angels and dreams, experienced the same hopes and fears any ordinary parent would feel. They had their own hardships and expectations, quite human ones. As do each of us when we hold a newborn.

A first child, a young couple, a strange town, an unsupportive family. This is the life of ordinary people caught up in extraordinary events, the fulfillment of an ancient promise predestined to sweep away our sins in the overwhelming flood of God’s grace.

And it all starts with a small baby with tiny fingers and toes, cradled at the breast of a young virgin, her flesh torn in childbirth and her spirit lifted in praise for a safe delivery.

The Scripture (John 1 ) tells us that the Word, the expression of God’s nature and purpose, became flesh and dwelt among us. The Word was with God and was God. From the very beginning. And now He was with us.

Mary and Joseph had no idea what that really meant. And looking back over 2000 years later, we don’t either. Not really. But like Mary, we can ponder these things and believe them (Luke 2 ).

And resting in this reality, we can have what the angels promised. We can have peace. And we can give praise.

It’s a baby

OK, not just any baby. It’s a grand baby.

And when I got to hold her today for the first time, she was of course the most beautiful baby in the world.

I felt the kind of healthy awe I’ve felt each time one of our own was born. But it perhaps more like the level of elation I felt when Margaret came—the first born, with all her possibilities and promise.

So yesterday, December 1, Christian and Ann welcomed Tabitha Elaine Metts into the world. 8 pounds, 2 ounces. 19 inches long.

There are pictures and there will be lots more. It’s nice when the dad is a photographer.

The plan is for Tabitha to call me Santa. (The kids figured it out a long time ago.) And she will call Katie “Lady.” Because she is one.

I’m sure I will eventually think deep thoughts about the honor of being a grandparent, but for now I’m just excited. The Lord is gracious. And we all get a baby for Christmas.

Again.

Why we celebrate St. Nicholas Eve

Monday night we will host our annual St. Nicholas Eve celebration, with about 70 friends and family. We’re looking forward to it, a delightful evening with good food and fun for children of all ages.

But how did the son of a Baptist preacher end up celebrating the feast day of a 3rd century Greek Orthodox saint? Two reasons, really. Or at least two you are likely to believe, and one that’s a little more esoteric. Here’s the ones that seem practical:

To demystify Santa.
Sure, he is a modern commercial icon. But it helps to remember that the original version was a real pastor who some 1700 years later is remembered for his kindness to children and strangers (He died December 6, 343AD). Psalm 112 says good will come to him who is generous and lends freely. Such a man, the Psalmist tells us, “has scattered abroad his gifts to the poor, his righteousness endures forever.” It’s good for kids to know there was such a man, and for adults to want to be such a man. To the degree people think about an ancient pastor who went around doing good deeds in secret when they think of Santa, our St. Nicholas Eve celebration will be a success. And to the degree they are encouraged to do likewise, as our Lord taught, all the better.

To give Santa his day.
Given that in our culture Santa has become synonymous with Christmas, we like the idea of moving the focus on him up, away from Christmas day itself. People are going to think about him and talk about him. But we want to do it earlier rather than later, clearing the way on Christmas to focus on the Christ child himself. Since St. Nicholas was imprisoned for his faith, since as a young he traveled to Israel to follow in the Lord’s steps, and since he gave away his family’s considerable fortune to minister to others, mostly in secret, we think he would approve. Actually, we think he would prefer not to be noticed at all. But Psalm 112 tells us such a man’s reputation “will be lifted high in honor.” So we will give him his day on the 6th, so we can be more careful to worship his Lord on the 25th.

And the other reason? Well, because imagination and mystery are given short shrift in our lives, and I think that they deserve more attention. When you put the two together, one possible outcome is fantasy—a unique and viable way to think about things that really matter. Like, in this case, generosity and surprise. It’s only one way to thing about them, so course. But it’s a delightful one.

So, relax. Have fun. Santa Claus is coming to town.